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Tuesday, September 13, 2011

Finding and Keeping your Bashert by Rabbi Shafier

Finding and Keeping your Bashert by Rabbi Shafier: " If you want your free magnet so you can represent and show everyone you are a frummy, just go to the site and they will hook you up.

Finding and keeping your Bashert: How to avoid the dating game mistakes

Playing Shadchan

When my wife and I were newlyweds, we took up an informal study of marriages. At the time, my parents had a close circle of friends, 8 couples, who got together regularly. After carefully looking at each couple, we both reached the same conclusion: every one of them was mismatched! Had we been the shadchanim, we would not have put any of them together. She was too smart… He was too frum… She was too sophisticated… He was too loud…They just didn’t fit together.
Marriage is not a match of two like individuals"

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